The Best Book to Read in Your 20s

It changed how I’m living my 20s.

Shan Yi Tan
8 min readDec 10, 2023
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My friends, Xiao Tong and Azim, introduced me to this book in November 2023, saying that it had changed their perspectives on life. When I heard their transformation stories, I knew it was a book that I should read.

The Defining Decade’ provides a guide for navigating the crucial decisions of your 20s, featuring real-life examples and backed by findings from multiple studies. The book is written by Meg Jay, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist and speaker renowned for her work on young adulthood and development.

Who Would I Recommend This Book

🟢You are in your 20s to early 30s: Although the book states that it is for those in their 20s, I think individuals in their early 30s will benefit by reading it.

🟢You want a better career and relationships: This book targets those with mainstream or traditional goals, such as having a successful career and building a family. Some chapters may not resonate with you if these are not your priorities.

🟢You are keen on personal development and self-love topics

🚫 You don’t want to change how you live your life: It’s important to note that this is a self-help book, and embracing change is a crucial component. If you’re not open…

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Shan Yi Tan

A fintech product manager who runs creative projects and business after 9-5 | More manifestation and productivity at http://wondefull.com/